Learn how to fire an employee in a way that preserves the dignity of everyone involved. Find out what to do to get ready, and exactly how to do the deed.
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Learn how to fire an employee in a way that preserves the dignity of everyone involved. Find out what to do to get ready, and exactly how to do the deed.
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Other than questioning someone’s parentage, is there a faster way to insult someone than calling him an introvert? Isn’t introversion something that we need to cure people of by sending them to the Dale Carnegie Course?
Many organizations have invested in some form of psychometric instrument that indicates whether people have a preference for introverted or extroverted behaviour, but that hasn’t stopped the vast majority of people from throwing around these terms without actually having a clue as to what they mean.
People hear “extrovert”, and they think: outgoing, friendly, social, capable, productive, normal.
People hear “introvert”, and they think: shy, withdrawn, anti-social, illusive, dysfunctional, wall-flower.
The problem with these descriptions is that neither is particularly accurate, and it infers that people are capable of only one set of behaviours exclusively. There is also a connotation that Extroverts will excel in business to a much higher degree than Introverts.
In Good to Great, Jim Collins reveals the qualities that his research has shown as effective in running great organizations. Interestingly, many of the qualities of “Level Five Leadership”, are found more naturally in people with Introverted preferences.
You might also be surprised who may be a closet-introvert: High-profile leaders, television personalities, sports stars, maybe even one of your friends, neighbours, or family are introverted. They’re everywhere, so beware – you never know when they’ll want to slink into the back corner of a meeting room, and silently wish everyone would stop talking at once. Or perhaps pray that someone will listen to them for 20 seconds before interrupting them. Worse yet, they may think about something before responding to a question creating that awkward few seconds silence.
So you may be wondering where I fit on the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator Grid.
As someone who spends a lot of time talking to groups of people, and a person who worked in television (for a short and spectacularly unsuccessful period of time), I am rarely accused of being an Introvert.
I prefer to label myself as a Recovering-Extrovert. We might need to create a new scale for measurement.
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People do what gets reinforced (this is both a good news and a bad news story)! Here’s how you can use consequences to manage performance.
The ABC’s of Performance Management
For more information, take a look at ‘Bringing Out the Best in People: How to Apply the Astonishing Power of Positive Reinforcement’, by Aubrey C. Daniels
Activator (or antecedent)
Behavior
Consequences
Leaders often overuse activators and underuse consequences.
Types of Consequences
There are four types of consequences:
Positive and negative reinforcement are consequences that will increase behavior, while punishment and extinction are consequences that will decrease behavior.
Consequences That Drive Performance
Consequences can be:
The consequences that will drive performance are positive, immediate, and certain.
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The most significant development for managers and executives takes place ON THE JOB (i.e. not through training or coaching/mentoring). However training is what is most commonly offered.
Why most training is useless:
Don’t default to training activities for yourself or your directs when building development plans! If you do use training, think about what you are going to do to ensure that what is taught is actually applied.
High impact development activities include:
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Three things to remember about how to conduct a job interview:
A good interview process greatly improves the chances of landing the best possible hire. This is critical because turnover is expensive.
A bad interview is an inquisition that provides the illusion of power to the interviewer and a high level of anxiety to the candidate – “tell me about your strengths and weaknesses….”
A great interview is a mutually respectful conversation that determines the quality of the match between a candidate’s skills and the competencies required for a specific position.
Before the Interview
Know what you’re interviewing for:
Now that you’ve got a stack of resumes:
Prepare the candidate for the interview:
Prepare yourself for the interview:
During the Interview
Attempt to keep the interview informal but professional. Be respectful and professional. Turn off your blackberry!
Interview format:
Assessing a candidate’s responses:
Bring to a close:
After the Interview
Remember that your intuition is a powerful tool in the interviewing process but it is not the only one – you should score and rank each interview performance – use the Wily Manager Resume and Interview Scoring Tool.
Consider:
The ‘How to Conduct a Job Interview’ topic bundle includes:
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Three important things to remember when you are leading change
1. As individuals experience change, each one will deal with change differently. In general though, people move through three predictable phases when confronted with change:
Stage One: ‘Endings’ – anger, denial, resistance, mourning
Stage Two: ‘Exploration’ – chaos, turmoil, hope
Stage Three: ‘New beginnings’ – new routines/methods, optimism, stability
You should expect employees to move through various emotions….even when things are going well!
2. Resistance arises when people realize that change is difficult
3. Your role is to keep people on track despite obstacles
Communicating to different personality types
We are each a ‘creature of habit’ and tend to act consistently over time and in different situations.
Various measurement systems can help you understand preferred styles of behavior – both your own, and those of others. For example:
These personality profiles categorize how an individual prefers to:
To communicate effectively during change, it is critical to tailor your messages to the personality preferences of the individuals you are dealing with.
Dealing with Resistance to Change
You should expect resistance to change – this is normal! As a leader, you can minimize resistance to change if you:
Sometimes, however, you will encounter continued resistance to change. When confronted with difficult behavior, you can manage it if you:
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Becoming a Conflict Competent Leader: How You and Your Organization Can Manage Conflict Effectively (Craig E. Runde and Tim A. Flanagan)
“If workplace conflict is inevitable, becoming a conflict competent leader is one of the most valuable skill sets a leader can possess. Runde and Flanagan clearly lay out how destructive conflict can be prevented while fostering the kind of constructive debate and creative solutions which businesses need to thrive.”
—Joanne McCree, former vice president, human resources, IBM
Developing Your Conflict Competence: A Hands-On Guide for Leaders, Managers, Facilitators, and Teams (Craig E. Runde and Tim A. Flanagan)
A practical resource, this book combines tips, checklists, exercises, and stories to outline concrete processes that improve the way leaders, managers, and anyone within an organization responds to conflict. Beginning with a series of questions and self-diagnostics, the authors show you how to: maintain emotional balance in the face of conflict; implement constructive communications techniques; help others deal with conflicts that are causing organization problems; establish norms for handling conflict; use specific approaches for addressing conflict more effectively.
Building Conflict Competent Teams (Craig E. Runde and Tim A. Flanagan)
Understanding how to cool down, slow down, and engage the naturally occurring conflicts among team members is critical to the ultimate success of a team. With this book, your team and its members will gain a deeper understanding of how conflict emerges and how to respond in ways that will leverage conflicts to their advantage. Team members will learn the importance of establishing a safe team climate, agreeing on processes to guide interactions, and use of constructive communication skills in order to develop a conflict competent team.
As the authors say, conflict is not to be avoided, but embraced and explored. This often results in new, previously unimagined opportunities, solutions and results. The authors include stories, interviews, and examples that provide entertaining and thought provoking insights. They dedicate one chapter to techniques and processes for addressing team conflict that has gone awry. Runde and Flanagan also include useful tips and tools for assessing your team?s current state of conflict competence and suggestions for addressing the challenges of today?s virtual and geographically dispersed teams.
Learn 4 easy ways to improve your presentations…and why friends don’t let friends use Powerpoint.
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Far smarter people than me have written about what is required for effective leadership, but this week I have been reflecting upon the most necessary ingredient: courage.
I have had the pleasure of interacting with many leaders of varying quality over many years, and all of them have at least a few obvious strengths, but the common denominator in the truly outstanding leaders, are those who handle awkward, difficult or downright scary situations head-on. They don’t always get it right the first time, but the outstanding leader does not back down because she fears reprisal from her boss, peers, direct reports or some other stakeholder.
It is amazing how many people have a strong need to liked by those who report through to them. The relationship between a boss and his/her employees should always be respectful, but it does not need to be friendly. Many leaders hate to deliver bad news, or say “no” to people. Other leaders won’t deal with performance issues because it might involve a difficult conversation, or let an employee who should have been fired years ago get away with perpetual sub-par performance.
This is exquisite BS.
It is a form of dishonesty, and certainly demonstrates a lack of integrity when leaders fail to engage in difficult conversations. Progressive organizations have figured this out, and gotten rid of managers who are afraid to get rid of people.
The right thing to do is rarely the easy thing to do, but it is the burden of leadership. If you are too chicken$hit to do the right thing, then you should either grow a pair, or wait to be fired. The choice is yours
Learn the 5 steps to delivering quality feedback.
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'Be a Mentor...NOT a Micro-Manager':
5 Cheat Sheets with quick tips
on how to give your direct reports
the support and development opportunities
they desperately crave.
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